Galina Koptsova

Scenario of family leisure for parents with children of the junior preparatory group.

"IT'S SO GOOD TO HAVE A FAMILY!"

Preschool education. Education and training program in kindergarten /edited by M. A. Vasilyeva/

Educator: Galina Aleksandrovna Koptsova, highest category, MBDOU kindergarten No. 2 “Fairy Tale”, Kulunda village, 2012

Target:

Form primary value ideas about family, family traditions, responsibilities; bring children and parents together.

Harmonize parent-child relationships through joint events (leisure evenings, tea parties). Establishing partnerships with families of pupils.

Develop the child’s communication skills - free communication with adults and children.

Creating a favorable atmosphere of goodwill and mutual understanding.

Form of conduct: competitive program.

Venue: music hall.

Participants: children and their parents, grandparents.

Preliminary work:

1. Conversations about family, learning poetry.

2. Listening and learning songs about dad, mom, grandparents, and family.

3. Looking at family albums.

4. Making invitation cards for family members, “Sunny” talismans, drawing portraits.

Material and design.

costumes for teams of parents and children, high-heeled shoes for girls, pyramids, balls, markers, “Sunshine” mascots, balloons, drawn faces of girls and boys for the central wall, an exhibition of creative works of families “Mom’s Hands, Dad’s Hands and My Little Hands” , family photo exhibition “We are a friendly family”, music center, CDs with songs and music.

Holiday scenario

(music is playing, children and parents are sitting at tables)

Presenter1. Hello - it means good evening, it means be healthy and happy, it means be in a good mood. We are glad to welcome you to our family evening!

Today we have gathered in this hall for a reason. Today we will learn how important family is to us. Let's talk about family friendship. And we will dedicate our holiday to friendship in our families!

Presenter2. Family is close and dear people, those whom we love, from whom we take example, whom we care about, to whom we wish goodness and happiness.

Everyone who could come is gathered

You couldn't find a happier day.

There will be competitions and songs.

It will be interesting for all of us.

Today we have families visiting: /lists families, families stand up and wave their hands)

1 child

Today no one is in a hurry.

Nobody runs to work in the morning,

We all gathered together, today, now - What a wonderful holiday we have!

2child

Today is a holiday - “Family Day”,

We congratulate you together.

You smile from your heart,

Now we are performing!

Presenter 1. On a holiday, you can’t live without poetry. What is family? Our children will tell us about this. (Children read poetry)

1 child

Family is joy, warmth and comfort,

Family is a home where you are always welcome!

2child. I really love it when everyone gets together.

The table is covered with a white tablecloth.

Grandma and mom, dad and me,

We are called together - family.

(O. Vysotskaya)

3child Family is a holiday around the round table,

Family is happiness, family is home!

4child

I love my mom very much, I love my dad too.

Mom bakes me gingerbread, dad reads books to me.

Dad, Mommy and I are our friendly family!

(Idea by Vekshegonov)

5 child:

I love my grandmother, I love my grandfather.

I always help them, sweep the floor and wash the dust.

Mom, dad, grandfather and I, and my grandmother are our friendly family!

(Idea by Vekshegonov)

6child

Family is me, and they call me:

Kitten and sweetie, bunny, bird.

Someone is my brother, and someone is my sister.

Family - where everyone loves me and caresses me,

7child

I love my family very much

I send her warm greetings:

Dad, mom and sister,

To the old granny and... to me.

Presenter 2. Now it's time to sing. Sing more cheerfully about family, about peace, friends. Song "Happy Family" words and music by Vadim Skrypnik (performed by children)

Presenter1. Well done, now we know exactly who is part of our friendly family! Dear parents, haven’t you stayed too long? Then answer, what is needed for a large happy family? First you need a big house so that everyone can fit in it. But we will find out how to build it by taking part in the competition

Competition 1 “What does it cost us to build a house?”

(two families compete: adults and children assemble a picture of a house from the proposed details, while saying proverbs about home and family.)

Materials: sheet of Whatman paper, house details made of colored self-adhesive paper.

There is no need for treasure when there is harmony in the family.

Lead the house without shaking your beard.

Whatever it is like at home, it’s like that for yourself.

Away is good, but home is better. When the family is together and the heart is in the right place.

The hut is red not in its corners, but in its pies.

Leading. Well done! Great house built!

Presenter 2. Every family has its own hobbies: someone knits, sews, makes crafts, grows flowers or vegetables, sings, plays musical instruments. Every family has its own talents. Now we will be convinced of this by seeing the talents of our families. Someone has prepared a song for us, someone has prepared a skit, and someone may even dance...

"Family Talent Competition"»

Presenter 1. Let's start the first performance with riddles.

Riddles about family offers us Rapanovich family.

She radiates light, her smile makes her dimple.

There is no one more precious than your own. (mommy).

The whole farm: quinoa, and Ryabushka corydalis,

But he will always feed us with scrambled eggs. (grandmother).

They gave me trinkets - seven nesting dolls and a baby beaver.

But more valuable than all the toys, for me, mine. (sister).

Guess who it is? Car keys, tie, hat.

I am waiting, friends, for an answer from you. Well done! Certainly. (dad).

Soaks it in warm milk, he eats a piece of bread,

Walks with a stick in his hand, our beloved. (grandfather).

Presenter 2. Everyone knows that children make the house brighter! Therefore, a real family always starts with children. Now we’ll find out what it’s like to be a mother of three sons by listening to the poem

“It’s cool to be a mother of three boys,” performed by Natalya Sergeevna Khizhnyak.

It's great to be a mother of three boys!

And this is clear to anyone without words.

Being a mother of girls, of course, is not the same -

There are dolls, dishes, a hospital, lotto.

There are fluffy dresses and toe-length braids.

God gave it to me. three boys.

My house is not decorated with vases of roses,

And the robot, the Kalashnik, that my son brought,

Finding this in a puddle near a loved one’s house.

Cleaned it, washed it, and now everything is like new.

So much that could have passed by.

But here it is happiness - three guys, three sons.

Presenter 1. And we continue the performance of our families. What are our children like? We will find out by watching the performance of the Melnikov family.

What am I?

Son. Mom and Dad tell me.

Dad. You are so stubborn! Everyone has washed and eaten, only you are lying in bed.

Mother. How many times can I repeat that it’s time for you to get up!

Son. I washed my face cleanly with soap - Mom immediately praised me:

Mother. Now, son Andryusha, you are obedient and good!

Son. I’m always like this with them: Sometimes it’s good, sometimes it’s bad! (D. Sheyanov)

Presenter 2 Who wakes us up with ringing laughter at dawn? Our children...

Who asks us every evening to sing a song to them? Our children.

Our children feel happy when their parents are interested in their affairs and spend most of their free time with them. Children respond to this with care and attention.

I'm taking care of mom and dad

Dad complains: “I’m getting tired of work...”

Mom too: “I’m tired, I can barely stand on my feet...”

I take a broom from dad - I’m not a slacker either,

After dinner, I’ll wash the dishes myself, I won’t forget,

I’m taking care of mom and dad, I’m strong, I can do it!

(Oleg Bundur)

Presenter 1 Family is a small island of warmth, love, joy and light. It's no secret that our mothers create warmth and comfort in the house.

1 child

I love it so much when the moon looks out the window.

And fairy tales quietly wander around the corners.

And next to me my mother holds my hand.

And strokes my hair lightly.

2child The word mom is precious, mom should be treasured.

With her affection and care, it is easier for us to live in the world.

Presenter 2. Our girls are such fashionistas and dream of their mother’s outfits. Every girl's dream is their mother's heels. Mothers walk well in heels, but we invite you to see how our girls can do it.

Attraction “Mom's Heels”

(The girls in their mother’s shoes walk to the end of the hall and back).

Presenter 2. Moms are good at performing. Now we’ll check how they can draw.

Contest “Portrait of a beloved son (daughter).

(mothers draw a portrait of their child with a marker on a balloon)

1 child

Dear mom, I love you.

I'll sing a funny song for you.

Song "Mommy", music. V. Kanishcheva, lyrics. L. Aflyatunova"

Presenter 1. Listen carefully and help me guess who it is?

He can do everything, he can do everything.

Everyone is braver and stronger.

The barbell is like cotton wool for him.

Well, of course, it's DAD

1 child.

My dad does not tolerate idleness and boredom,

Dad has skillful, strong hands.

And if anyone needs help,

My dad is always up for work.

Presenter 2. I offer a little warm-up for children. Guys, I will name different types of work, and you will answer in unison who does this work, dad or mom, and show how they do it:

does laundry, drives a car, cooks dinner, repairs the TV, washes the floor, plows the garden, collects children for kindergarten, waters flowers, relaxes on the couch, knits, chops wood, sits at the computer.

Leading: Family is the basis of everything good and positive that a child has. Respect and love for family traditions is instilled in the family!

Dads are different: one is silent, and one screams.

That one sometimes hums, the other one hangs out at the TV.

He sometimes hugs you with the warmth of strong arms.

He sometimes forgets that he is his son’s best friend.

Dads are different. ...And when the days pass,

Their sons grow up, exactly like them.

(Oleg Bundur)

Dear dads, don’t forget about this and try to be an example for your children in everything.

Presenter 1 Guys, both moms and dads can handle any task! I suggest watching how dads cope with the task in the competition or whether they need help!

Contest “I can’t carry my own burden”

(Dad takes the child on his shoulders and runs with him to the pyramid and back)

Competition "Attraction with a ball"

(dad sits on the ball and jumps on it, holding the child’s hand)

Presenter 1. The greatest happiness is when the family is friendly. And for children it’s happiness to take part in the game with the whole family. Which of you guys wants to take part in the competition with the whole family?

Game "Who can assemble the pyramid faster"

(3 pyramids with multi-colored rings, disassembled. You need to assemble them in order, with the whole family: mom, dad and child.)

Presenter 2 Now we will see which family is the most friendly, united, resourceful, mischievous, with a rich sense of humor. Imagine: morning, the alarm clock did not ring. Mom and dad went to work, the child went to kindergarten, everyone overslept.

Contest " Morning preparations"

Two families are playing. In the center of the hall there are chairs in two rows with their backs facing the center. They are wearing personal belongings of mom, dad and child: briefcase, Panama hat, umbrella, glasses, wig, galoshes, sandals, skirt. Mom and dad are blindfolded. Dads run around their chairs in circles to the music. At the end of the music, they stop, take the thing they stopped at and give it to their mother. Mom quickly dresses the child. And so on - until there are no more things on the chairs.

Presenter 2. Musical break. We present to your attention an oriental dance performed by Mashenka, which she prepared with her mother. "Oriental dance"

Presenter 1. Our family is not only moms and dads, but also grandparents. Grandma has a kind heart, gentle hands that can do everything. Grandfather has golden hands, he’s always making something. They teach their grandchildren what they themselves can do, and they teach them the most necessary thing in life - kindness.

1 child

My grandmother is with me, and that means I am the head of the house,

I can open cabinets, water flowers with kefir,

Play football with a pillow and clean the floor with a towel.

Can I eat cake with my hands and slam the door on purpose!

But this won’t work with mom, I’ve already checked.

(R. Rozhdestvensky)

2child

Moms try so hard, they bake pies!

The kids eat everything. But grandma's are waiting!

Why does everything always taste better at Grandma's?

And I would like to ask for more quickly!

Grandmother's tales. Grandmother's hands.

Granddaughters and grandchildren will forever remember!

(O. Klimchuk)

3child

We are with you, grandfather, friends, where you go, there I go.

We go fishing together, I run, and you waddle.

We pick raspberries: you from the bush, I from the basket.

We painted the fence together - our hands are still covered in paint!

Only you, no doubt, are the best grandfather in the world!

(L. Gromova)

4child Our grandfather is very businesslike:

He walks around the house, forgetting about peace.

He helps his grandmother all day,

He is not at all lazy to do this.

Then he constantly loses points,

Either he will break something, or he will break something,

Always in a hurry, but tired of work,

He sits down with the newspaper and is already snoring.

(Kindness Nastya)

This song sounds like a gift to our dear grandparents.

Presenter 2. Everyone knows how many questions your grandchildren ask. Zhenya and his grandmother offer to see how to answer them.

Scene “Why»

Grandson. Grandmother! Why do I have two arms, two legs, two ears, two eyes, but only one mouth and one nose?

Grandmother. And this is because, granddaughter (granddaughter), so that you walk more, do more, see more, hear more and chat less and don’t stick your nose where it doesn’t belong.

Presenter1 Grandmothers love to cook something delicious for their grandchildren. And even with their eyes closed they can distinguish between foods: pasta, buckwheat, beans, sugar. Will they and their grandchildren be able to distinguish between these products?

Game: “Guess by touch.”

(children and grandmothers take turns, with their eyes closed, touch and name foods: pasta, beans, sugar)

Competition for grandfathers “Funny Balls”.

At the presenter’s signal, “You can inflate the balloon,” the grandfathers compete to see who can inflate the balloon the fastest.

Leading. Now for grandparents, our dance is “Pancakes”.

Presenter 2:. Some of you look like mom, some like dad, and some like grandma or aunt.

We invite you to listen to the poem “ Who does he look like?

Vika Azarova.

Today we have a holiday, the whole family is happy,

We had a brother, or rather, me!

How good is he, who is he like?

Dad says: Look at mom, she has a very nice face.

Mom says: Look at dad, the little guy looks funny.

Both grandmothers give each other an hour:

The grandson looks like you, don’t argue: “What are you, darling, like you.”

I sit alone like a mouse: let my relatives have fun!

I know that my brother is just like me!

Presenter 1. Let everyone dance today, without exception.

We announce now, dance "Invitation"!

(children invite their parents and everyone dances together)

Dance "Invitation".

Wishes to all parents from their children

Mom and dad, I want to say.

It's great that I have a family.

And I want, without a doubt,

Seeing you in a good mood.

Presenter 2 Today we saw that all the families of our children are strong, friendly and loving. Popular wisdom says: “A child learns from what he sees in his home. Parents are an example to him!” Don't forget this. Take care of your families, take care of each other, help your loved ones! And the children will follow your example! May you all be healthy and happy! But, do not forget that a kindergarten is also a big friendly family and we want peace, harmony and mutual understanding to reign in it.

Presenter 1 The sun is a talisman of warmth and kindness. We wish that the sun always smiles in your home! Your children give you this talisman. (Children give their parents a “sun” talisman.)

Presenter 2 Thank you very much for your participation! To remember our holiday, let's take a common family photo. At the end of our holiday, we invite you all to a tea party.

Please welcome our family pie,

pie with the name: “Live everyone together”

(All participants of the holiday go outside. Children and parents hold balloons with paper doves attached)

Literature.

1. G. A. Lapshina. Collection “Holidays in kindergarten”, publishing house “Teacher”, Volgograd, 2004.

2. “Music and movement” Moscow, “Enlightenment”, 1981.

5. A. I. Burelina “Musical minutes for kids”, St. Petersburg, 1998.

8. Zaitseva O.V., Karpova E.V. “Let's celebrate the holiday cheerfully.” Games for the whole family / Artists M. V. Dushin. V. N. Kurov. – Yaroslavl: “Academy of Development”, “Academy K”, 1999. – 240 p., ill.

10. Children’s poems about family from the site “Early Child Development”, www.razumniki.ru

Competition "Attraction with a ball"

Attraction "Mom's Heels"

Competition "Portrait of a beloved son (daughter)"

Oriental dance

Mom reads the poem "It's cool to be a mother of three boys."

A skit performed by mother and son “What am I?”

Competition "It's a burden, it can't handle it"

Sketch "Why" performed by grandmother and grandson

Photo "It's so good to have a family!"

Family holiday “Our friendly family”

Good evening, dear guys, mothers, fathers, grandparents. We are very glad to see you. We have gathered today to escape from everyday worries and have a good rest.

We are growing together as a family
The basis of the foundations is the parental home.
All your roots are in the family circle,
And you come into life from family.
In the family circle we create life,
The basis of the foundations is the parental home.

Family ties are the strongest, most reliable. The support and help of loved ones accompany us throughout our lives. Today, during the competitions, families will demonstrate to everyone how they can help each other, act coherently, and help each other out in different situations.

(All participants are divided into 2 teams. Each team chooses a captain and comes up with a name)

1 competition “Warm-up”

The beginnings of proverbs are given on the cards; you need to add the end to them (1 point for each correct answer)

The whole family is together, so (and the soul is in place).

The family is at war, and the lonely one (grieves).

It’s cramped together, but (boring apart).

It's warm in the sun, it's warm in the mother's presence (good).

You don't need a treasure if (there is harmony in the family).

2nd competition "Brainstorm"

The teams take turns asking questions. If one team does not answer, then the second gets the opportunity to answer the same question and earn an extra point.

Questions:

1. The citizen’s father’s name is Viktor Alexandrovich, and his son’s name is Sergei Petrovich. What is the citizen's name? (Peter Viktorovich)

2. Two mothers and two daughters ate three sandwiches at breakfast, and each of them ate one sandwich. Is such a situation possible? (Grandmother, mother, daughter)

3. How to jump from a ten-meter ladder without hurting yourself? (Jump off the bottom step)

4. A child sits on the road and cries: “I have a father, I have a mother, but I am not their son.” Could this be possible? (This is the daughter)

5. When is the best time for a black cat to get into the house? (When the door to the house is slightly open).

6. You are sitting on an airplane, there is a horse in front of you, and a car behind you. Where are you located? (On the carousel)

7. Who will never answer “Yes” to a question put to him? (Sleeping man to the question: “Are you sleeping?”)

8. What could be in an empty pocket? (Hole)

3rd competition “Connoisseurs of Fairy Tales”

(1 child from each team participates)

1. Fruits in which Cheburashka was found (Oranges)

2. The most harmful postman in the world (Pechkin)

3. In which fairy tale by K.I. Chukovsky does a vile insect engage in blackmail, ordering: “Bring me, animals, your babies, I’ll eat them for dinner today” (“Cockroach”)

4.What was the name of the little jackdaw from the fairy tale “Uncle Fyodor, the Dog and the Cat” (Khvatayka)

5. What was the pride of old man Hottabych? (Beard)

6.What was the name of the old woman’s rat Shapoklyak? (Lariska)

7. Who were the 33 heroes of Uncle Chernomor? (Nephews)

8. The most fearless and kind person, wore a doctor’s white coat, a white cap, and glasses on his nose (Doctor Aibolit)

4th competition "Chain"
In the allotted time, make a chain using paper clips. Whose chain is longer wins the competition.

5th competition “Tender words”

One father from each team participates. Assignment: name your child affectionately. The one who repeats the word or cannot name it loses.

6th competition “Tied Hands”

Two from each team come out and stand side by side: hand in hand. In pairs, touching hands are tied, and with free hands, that is, one of the participants with the left hand and the other with the right hand must wrap the package prepared in advance, tie it with a ribbon and tie it with a bow. Whose pair is ahead gets a point.

7th competition "Musical"

Task: guess who or what the song is about

1.If you went on the road with him (Friend)

2.She lies still and looks at the sun (Turtle)

3. Imagine: he was green (Grasshopper)

4. He didn’t go through anything, they didn’t ask him anything (Antoshka)

5.They are made of flowers and bells (Girls)

6.He runs, sways (Blue carriage)

7. It’s fun to walk through the open spaces with her (Song)

8. It will make everyone warmer (Smile)

8th competition "Culinary"

One mother from each team participates. Cooking recipes are written on paper plates, and then the plates are cut in half so that the beginning of the recipe is on one half and the end on the other. The task is to add up as many complete recipes as possible.

Summing up, rewarding the winners, consolation prizes for the losers.

Family is happiness, love and luck,
Family means trips to the country in the summer.
Family is a holiday, family dates,
Gifts, shopping, pleasant spending.
The birth of children, the first step, the first babble,
Dreams of good things, excitement and trepidation.
Family is work, taking care of each other,
Family means a lot of housework.
Family is important!
Family is difficult!
But it is impossible to live happily alone!
Always be together, take care of love,
Drive away grievances and quarrels,
I want my friends to say about us:
How nice your family is!

Tea party.

Day one

Mom and 8 year old daughter drink tea while sitting at the table.

Mother: Katya, take some candy.

The daughter suddenly jumps out of her chair: I don’t want any sweets, I’m tired! I'm alone all the time! (He runs away and immediately comes running with a newspaper in his hands) Look what families should be like! (points to a photo of a large family) They have so many children in the family, and I’m alone! I don't need any more candy. Buy me at least one little sister!

Mother: My dear, but you know, to buy a little sister, you need a lot of money! But our dad doesn’t have that kind of money! And besides, just imagine, we buy you a little sister, and you have to share everything with her - do you agree to that? With candies, dolls, dresses, she will cry, and when she grows up, she will pull your pigtails!

Kate: Let it go! I will share everything! I still want a sister!

Mother: Okay, I'll tell you a secret! I've already made sure you have a little sister!

Kate: Yes! And when will it be?

Mother: Just in time for the New Year!

Kate: So long!

Mother: We'll have to wait!

Kate: Then you and your dad will go to the store where they sell children and buy it?

Mother: Well, yes!

Kate: Will I go with you?

Mother: No, you will wait for us at home.

Kate: Well, okay, we'll have to wait!

The doorbell rings. Dad comes in. Kisses his wife on the cheek.

Dad: How are you feeling, darling? Did you walk in the fresh air today?

Mother: Yes, Katya and I walked in the park. Everything is fine and I feel great! I had to tell Katya that she was going to have a little sister.

Dad: Is it true? Well, that’s good, let him know! But how do you know that little sister?

Mom (smiles): Feel!

Day two

On stage, a girl sits at a table and writes something. The phone is ringing.

Hello, Vika, hello!

Hello, Maxim! Where are you calling from?

Look out the window and see!

Everything is clear, get up!

Enters the stage with flowers.

Vika: (surprised): Are we having some kind of holiday today?

Maxim: Are your parents at home?

Vetch: Home, come in!

Suitable for parents. Mom is knitting, dad is reading the newspaper. They greet each other.

Maxim: Dear Lyudmila Vasilievna and Alexey Viktorovich, you know that Vika and I have been friends since first grade. And I want to tell you that I love your daughter and ask you for her hand in marriage!

The parents looked at each other, smiling: We are not against it, but what will Victoria answer to this?

Vika: (joyfully): I agree!

The wedding march sounds and everyone leaves the stage.

Music plays, the newlyweds demonstrate a happy family life: they laugh, look at books together, blow soap bubbles. They leave the stage.

Two children appear on the stage, Vika: and Maxim:, who accompany the children to school: they braid their daughters’ hair, straighten their son’s tie, ask them to recite poems assigned yesterday in literature, etc. The children leave.

Vetch: Maxim, I wanted to talk to you!

Maxim: I'm listening to you!

Vetch: I have two news for you - one is bad and the other is good. Which one should I start with?

Maxim: Start with the bad one!

Vetch: My boss called me into his office and told me to look for another job.

Maxim: AND? How did he explain the reason for his dismissal?

Vetch: I have an incomplete higher education, and the demands of our time are growing; he wants to hire people who are more qualified and educated than me. He gave me a 2 week period.

Maxim: My dear, I understand that you are upset, but there is no need to worry so much about it! With your qualities and knowledge, you will be able to find another job. Do you remember when you were offered a vacancy at a company, and a very prestigious one at that?!

Vetch: I remember, but I have one more news...

Maxim: Well yes - good!!!

Vetch: I don't even know how to tell you. I was at the doctor's. In general, we will have a child.

Maxim: (in amazement): This is news! What are you doing? This is impossible!

Vetch: Aren't you happy?!

Maxim: What kind of child are we talking about? I work like an ox, you have problems with work! We still have 2 of our own!

Vetch: Your own? Isn't this one ours?

Maxim: You're crazy! If you decide to give birth to this child, then don't count on me!

Leaves.

Vika comes to the church to see the priest.

Vetch: Father, I have family difficulties, help me, what should I do?

Priest: I'm listening to you!

Vetch: I'm married, my husband and I have known each other since 1st grade. We have 2 children.

Priest: So this is happiness! What's the problem?

Vetch: The problem is that I'm being fired from my job and I'm expecting a child. My husband is against him showing up. He said that if I want to have a child, I can’t count on him, he doesn’t have money.

Priest: Well, do you want your baby to be born?

Vetch: Of course I do! I already love him!

Priest: This means that you have already made your choice and came to me only to confirm that you were right... That’s right, pray and the Lord will give you the strength to bear and give birth to your child. He blessed you. Only he gives us life, and no one has the right to take it away! Go with God! And don't be afraid of anything! Your husband will understand sooner or later that he is making a big mistake and, God willing, will repent of it...

Vetch: Bless!

Priest: God bless!

Day three

On stage there is a girl reading a letter.

My dear, my beloved, Mashenka! I'm fine. The weather is really rainy. I miss you very much, I can’t forget the day when I came to see you. Sorry, but I don’t have time to write you letters often. You understand, service is service! Just be patient, I'll be back home soon. Yours Kostya.

The doorbell rings. Masha opens the door. Mom appears on stage.

Hello! Why are you sitting at home? As much as possible! I should at least go out for a walk! Why are you silent? Why do you need him like that? Understand, stupid, he will marry not you, but someone else! He has been leading you by the nose all these 2 years! So, get him out of your stupid head! He's not worth it! All the neighbors have already tortured me with questions.

Masha (sadly): Throw it out, you say! Don’t worry, your neighbors won’t torment you with questions! I’ll marry someone else and they’ll immediately shut up!

Mom: For what other one?

Masha: Yes, at least for Yura.

Mom: Do you really love him?

Masha: Mom, what are you talking about - what kind of love! Yes, I loved Kostya and what came of it?

Mom: How can you say that? I raised you as a decent person! If only your father were alive! (wipes tears from his eyes)

Masha: Mommy, please don’t cry! I’m already an adult and I have to solve my own problems!

Mom: Problems? What problems? The fact that Kostya is marrying someone else is not a problem at all! Maybe this is for the better!

Masha: My problems, mom, my...

Mom appears on stage.

Masha, Masha!

The daughter comes out.

Mom: Why did Baba Klava tell me that Yurka Davydov often started walking you home? What have you gotten into your head? He is a widower, he has a young daughter! What did Kostya decide to take revenge on? You can’t do this, daughter, listen to me!

Masha: Revenge? Don't know! I probably want to arrange my own life! And the fact that he is a widower - so now, is it really his fault! I don’t love him, so maybe for now! You didn’t love dad at first either. But you lived with him for a long time!

Mom: Have you really already decided everything?

Masha nods her head.

Mom: And he proposed to you?

Mom: Do you know that Kostya’s wedding was upset? He won't marry!

Masha turns pale.

Mom is looking at a photo with her granddaughter, Masha is ironing clothes. The grandmother asks the girl to go to another room for something...

Mom: Masha, you have changed so much over the years that you got married and live in another city. If only I came here more often, I don’t really see my grandchildren! How are things going in general? How are you living?

Masha: As you can see, not bad!

A girl comes into the room.

Masha: Why are you standing here? Did I call you here? Well, go to your room!

The girl leaves.

Mom: Mash, why are you talking to her like that? It's a child! If something isn’t going well for you, then you can’t take your anger out on your child?!

Masha (angrily): Yes, mom, things are not going well! She's nothing but problems! Ever since I got married, things haven’t been going well! Haven't you ever noticed anything? And the fact that Lenka doesn’t look like me or Yura? Me and Yura - we are both fair, and she is black, like Kostya! And she was born prematurely at 7 months old, but she looked like she was 9 months old! And you mean you didn’t see this?! And the fact that there is no love in our family is for sure from my side!

Mom covers her face with her hands: And Yura, does he have any idea about Lenochka?

Masha: This fool has no idea about anything, he thinks that Lenka looks like his late aunt, just as dark-haired! He seems to do everything, bring everything into the house, but I don’t need anything and I don’t need him, and this life is not turning out as I imagined! And Lenka, I thought, I’ll love her, when I look at everything, Kostya gives it away, even his character. This is why I get angry and drive her away from me or something...

Mom: Why didn't you ever tell me anything?

Masha: What would it change? The opinions of your neighbors have always been important to you!

Mom: You’re wrong, Mashenka, you’re wrong! And you built your life the way you wanted! And there is no need to anger God! You have a family - you are raising two daughters and a son. Nastenka calls you mom. Your husband loves you, does everything for you, and Kostya, what happened to him - he got married for the first time, a year after your wedding, well, you remember, six months later he got divorced, got married again, a year later he got divorced again, and now he lives alone, sir. He was kicked out of work due to drunkenness. And you, apparently, are living your childhood dreams and are freaking out! Your Lenka is growing up! Look, don't miss out! Yes, okay, what should I teach you, you’re already literate! Okay, it's time for me to go, I've had my fill! And I’ll tell you what, Yurka loves Lenochka as if he were his own and probably knows everything, but he doesn’t admit it because he loves you and doesn’t want to lose you!

Leaves. The husband comes into the room, returning from work for lunch. Lena joyfully runs up to him and kisses him.

Lena: Grandma came!

Yura: Why have you already left?

Lena: Yes! Have you talked to mom?

Yura: No, now let’s sit down and talk together. Mash, come on, let's sit down and sit for a while! We need to talk! I don’t see you all day, I miss you!

Masha: Now let’s sit down for lunch and talk!

Yura: Yes, wait with lunch! Sit down, I need to say something!

Masha: She sat down! Speak!

Yura: You must accept this and, most importantly, don’t be nervous! This is also unexpected for me, I’m not saying that this is right and this should happen at the age of 16...., but our Lena is expecting a child.

Silence.

Masha (closing her eyes): Why are you telling me about this, and not her?

Yura: Lenochka was afraid to tell you.

Masha: And that’s why I told someone else’s uncle, and not my own mother!

Yura: What are you talking about? Watch your tongue!

Masha: What am I talking about? Yes, that this is not your daughter!

Lena runs up and hugs her father: Dad!...

Yura: Calm down, my dear! I raised her and I don’t need your truth, especially after so many years! This is my daughter and I will never give up on her!

Masha: Even if I say that this is Kostya’s daughter, and that I married you to annoy him and hide my shame, and that I never loved you??? Then you are truly an eccentric!

Yura: Let's not bring up the past! Now our daughter's fate must change!

Masha: Okay, okay, I’ll call my friend - she has a good doctor!

Yura: Why a doctor?

Masha: You ask strange questions! To have an abortion!

Yura: You're crazy! You're a woman! And this is your daughter! How can you say such things?

Masha (coolly): I try to take care of her and don’t want her to ruin her life like I did! Which child are we talking about? She herself is still a child, who will she give birth to? To me? No, he won't be!

Yura roughly grabs his wife's hand: No, my dear, wife! He will! I expected support from you, but not this! Don’t you think that she might not have children at all?!

Masha: Why should I think about this!

Yura: Because you are a mother! Although... maybe you have a stone instead of a heart! I could forgive you everything, but not such an attitude towards your daughter, who is more mine than yours! You don't have to worry about anything! My children and I are returning to my native village. Lena will go with me, I will pick up Stas from school. Well, you don’t have to worry about Nastya at all, she’s the daughter of a widower, after all, you yourself stuck this name on me among your friends!

Masha tries to object.

Yura: Get ready, daughter! And also, Mashenka, pray to God that your daughter will forgive you... although, who am I talking to? You're not listening to me!

They leave. Masha is left alone on stage.

Mom: Everyone have dinner. (everyone sits down at the table and starts eating)
Mom: How's the meat?
Dad: I would tell the truth, but I’m afraid to upset you, so I’ll make do with the word “rubber.”
Mom: (irritated) Speaking of rubber. When will you change your summer tires to winter ones?
Dad: Soon, soon.
Son: Maybe they shouldn’t be changed at all, since it’s already the end of February!
Dad: What are you doing? This is wrong. Tires need to be changed twice a year... And exactly when is not important.
Mom: Son, how are things at school?
Son: Uh, okay.
Dad: What did you get today?
Son: Five.
Mom: Honestly?
Son: Black eye.
Mom: Okay, but from the grades.
Son: (sighing heavily) Two.
Dad: Because of what?
Son: Because of the black eye!
Dad: And who did you fight with? With Petka?
Son: No, with the physical education teacher.
Mom (stunned): I... uh... how... As I understand it, a bad grade in physical education?
Son: No, according to geography. The geography student came, and she felt sorry for the physical education teacher, so she gave me a bad grade.
Dad: As I understand it, you beat the physical teacher?
Son: Actually, I’m not the only one. But for some reason I was the only one who got it.
Mom: Yes, I want you... yes you give me... you will be here with me...
Son (interrupted his mother): Why are we all talking about me, and about me? How are you doing at work, dad?
Dad: Uh, okay.
Son: What did you get?
Dad: Salary, what else.
Mom: Yes, yes, yes. And honestly?
Dad: (sighing heavily) Reprimand.
Son: And because of what?
Dad: I'm late for work.
Mom: So your boss reprimanded you? And you were late for work?
Dad: Well, actually, I’m not the only one. But for some reason I was the only one who got it.
Mom: Come on guys! I'll arrange this for you!!!
(Dad and son speak in whispers)
Dad: How are you doing around the house?
Mom: It's fine.
Son: Honestly?
Mom: Only I can ask this question!
Son: Okay, where were you?
Mom: At home.
Dad: Why then are my things in their places? There has never been a day when you were at home and didn’t hide my things God knows where!
Mom (translates the topic): How do you like the meat?
Son: So everything is as usual with us, and nothing bad happened?
Mom: Of course, no one fought with anyone, no one was late for anything. What can we even talk about in such a friendly family like ours?

Goals:

1. formation of students’ ideas about family, family happiness, family relationships;
2. help develop students’ moral ideas about family relationships, unite children and parents;
3. students’ awareness of attitudes towards future family life, the responsibility of family members.

Tasks:

1. equipping students with up-to-date information on family issues;
2. gaining primary experience in overcoming contradictions and problems that are inevitable when building family relationships;
3. creating prerequisites for the formation of a value-based attitude of schoolchildren towards family;
4. education based on the example of family relationships;
5. instilling the skills of collectivism, solidarity, “common sense”;
6. understanding the concepts of “family values”, “family heirlooms”, pride.

Equipment:
Exhibition of family photographs “My Family!” and drawings “My home! My family!
Posters:
- “It’s great that we are all here today”
- “When the family is together, the soul is in its place”
- “The child learns that
What he sees in his home.
Parents are an example of this."

- “A woman is the most powerful being in the world, and it is up to her to guide a man where the Lord God wants to lead him.” (G. Isen).
Musical arrangement:
the song “Parental Home”, “Song of the Baby Mammoth”, music for the song “The Little Prince”, “Oh, Porushka-Paranya...”, “It’s great that we are all gathered here today...”

Multimedia presentations

PROGRESS OF THE CLASS

I.Organizational moment

– Good afternoon, dear parents and children!

(The song “Parent’s House” plays)

Leading: Today in our class we will talk about family. Guys, we will talk about your feelings towards your family, towards your parents, about what you know about the history of your family, family traditions, pedigree. You will get acquainted with the most widespread traditions of the Russian people.

You and I are growing in a family circle,

The basics of the basics - parental home.

All your roots are in the family circle,

And you leave your family in life.

In the family circle we create life,

The basis of the foundations is the parental home.

Where does any family begin?

From the meeting of two previously strangers who become the closest and dearest. Before this meeting, your fathers and mothers had their own families in which they grew up. Their moms and dads have now become your grandparents. They also had their own parents, brothers, sisters. These are your great-grandparents.

Family is a continuation of your lineage. Its beginning goes back to the distant past. In it, in the past, are the faces of people close and dear to your family. They gave life to your parents and, thanks to fate, your parents were able to meet each other. Your ancestors gave life to your grandparents, great-grandparents. THANKS TO YOUR FAMILY YOU WERE BORN INTO THE WORLD.

What is a family?

Listen to one fairy tale.

(Music for the song “The Little Prince” plays, a dramatization of the fairy tale)

Narrator : A long time ago, many centuries ago, there were not so many stars in the sky as there are now. On a clear night, only one star could be seen, the light of which was either bright or dim. One day the Moon asked Star.

Moon: Little star, why is your light so different: sometimes it’s bright, showing the way even at night; is it dim and unnoticeable?

Narrator : The star was silent for a long time, and then, sighing, answered. Star: My light becomes dim when I'm lonely. After all, there is not a single star next to me that looks like me. And I really want to see and hear someone next to me!

Moon: And on what nights does your light become bright?

Star: My light becomes bright when I see hurrying wanderers. I was always interested to know what attracts them so much on the road, where are they in such a hurry?

Moon: Have you learned the secret of the hurrying wanderers?

Star: Yes. I once asked a question to a wanderer who had been on the road for a long time. He looked exhausted and very tired from a long journey, every step was given to him with great difficulty, but his eyes...

Moon: What were his eyes like?

Star: They glowed in the dark with happiness and joy. I asked him: “What are you happy about, wanderer?”

And he answered: “Freezing in the snow, starving without a piece of bread, suffocating from the heat, I walked forward, overcoming all obstacles, because I knew: warmth and comfort awaited me at home, the care and cordiality of my family - my wife, children, grandchildren. For the sake of their happy eyes, I am ready to do even the impossible.”

Narrator : The star fell silent and then answered.

Star: Since that very time, I have been trying to give as much light as possible to those travelers who bring happiness to their home, to their family.

Narrator: Luna looked at Star and asked.

Moon: My little helper! Would you like to have your own family, loving people who would help you make people happy?

Star: Is this possible?

Narrator: The moon, without saying another word, waved the sleeve of her golden robe, and at the same moment thousands of new stars shone in the sky, blinking with their unique flickering light to the little star, as if they were saying: “We are near, we are here, dear, we are now - one Family!

That's the whole story, did you like it?

Leading: When was Her Majesty's family born?

(Sketch “Conversation” Adam and Eve").

Adam said to Eve before the wedding:

“Now I will ask you 7 questions.

Who will give birth to children for me, my goddess?

And Eve quietly answered: “I am!”

“Who will raise them, my queen?”

And Eve answered again: “I am!”

“Who will prepare the food, O my joy?”

And Eve answered again: “I am!”

“Who will sew the dress?

Washing clothes?

Will he love me?

Decorate your home?

“I, I,” Eva echoed again, “I, I...”

From that time on, a family was born.

Leading: Every home has a family hearth. The hearth is a symbol of the home, a symbol of the holiness of the family. His fire was kindled from the fire of the sanctuary. Keeping it was a woman's sacred service. Putting out the fire was a sign of the greatest disaster. The family lived by the fireplace. They dried things by the fireplace, warmed up, dreamed by the fireplace, and shared their problems. Since ancient times, the sanctity of the marriage of husband and wife has been highly revered. Marriage between two loving hearts is considered a sacred union. Since ancient times, a man protected his family and obtained food. And it is still unknown whose role is more important: men or women, and who has to endure more trials in life: a man or a woman?
There is a poster on the board.

The presenter reads:
“A woman is the most powerful being in the world, and it is up to her to guide a man where the Lord God wants to lead him.” (G. Isen).

Leading: There are a huge number of proverbs in the educational everyday life of all nations. Let us think about their wise judgments.
Children in Russian costumes call each other, say proverbs.
1 student : The husband is the head
2 student : The wife is the neck
3 student : Wherever he turns, so it will be.

1student : A wife is like a homeland,
2student : Wherever you go,
3student : You always come back.

1student : The wife drank
2student : If the husband is a log.

1 student : Respect your wife
2student : Carry her in your arms
3student : And she will sit on your neck herself.

1student : A husband differs from a wife in that

2nd student: who wears a tie around his neck.
3student : And the wife - beads, and even children, and even a husband.

1student : When the family is together

2student : And the heart is in place

3student : That's why there is love in the family.

Children dance in Russian costumes and sing a game song.
“Oh, you Porushka-Paranya...”

Family is what we share with everyone
A little bit of everything: tears and laughter,
Rise and fall, joy, sadness,
Friendship and quarrels, silence stamped.
Family is something that is always with you.
Let the seconds, weeks, years rush by,
But the walls are dear, your father’s house -
The heart will remain in him forever.

And who is part of the family? Please list your family members?

(Children's answers)

Let's listen to poems about family:

1. There is no such holiday in the calendar,

But for us it is important in life and in destiny.

We simply could not live without him,

Enjoy the world, learn and create.

2.When our friendly family was born,

I wasn’t next to my dad and mom.

I often look at their beautiful photos.

And I’m a little angry, and a little jealous.

I ask my dad: “Where was I then?”

Dad answers: “You weren’t there!”

How can it be that without me

Such a friendly happy family was born?

3. I love it so much when the moon looks out the window,

And fairy tales quietly wander around the corners.

And next to me my mother holds my hand,

And strokes my hair lightly.

Today is a day off at home,

Today is Sunday.

Dad and I are doing magic together in the kitchen,

We bake cookies for mom.

We set the table and put flowers,

Place the cookies on a plate.

We will give mother love and a bouquet,

And mom will wash the dishes.

4.My dad loves in the diary

Sign beautifully

And with the deuces that they give me,

He lets mom figure it out

5. Grandfather is very businesslike with us:
He walks around the house, forgetting about peace.
He helps his grandmother all day,
He is not at all lazy to do this.
Then he constantly loses points,
Either he will break something, or he will break something,
Always in a hurry, but tired of work,
He sits down with the newspaper and is already snoring.

6. Our grandmother is very kind.
Our grandmother is not old at all.
Does our grandmother have wrinkles?
With them she is even better and more beautiful!
If your favorite doll is sick,
She will cure the doll right away.
If a lump appears on your forehead,
There is no button, the coat will tear
Or some other problem -
Grandma always helps us.

7. Our birthday girl is crying over a mountain of gifts:
- The new ball doesn’t bounce well, and the shampoo doesn’t lather!
He sniffles whiningly: “These beads are breaking!”
This doll is ugly - her hair doesn't curl!
I don’t want a puppy as a gift and I don’t want a cat.
I'm not asking for a stamp album and I'm not expecting boots.
Neither a mooing cow, nor a terrible viper...
Give me a sister, but better yet an older one!

8. My brother was born. I am, of course, very happy.
Only this little brother doesn’t get out of bed.
How can you not get angry here? During the day my brother sleeps all the time,
Cries in the middle of the night, but doesn’t want to play!
Everything in the house is now upside down. Everyone cares about him.
Even I need to be an example for my brother.
I'm trying, I'm ready! Only my brother doesn't know the words.
He only says “mom”, and that’s so strange!
Time is passing slowly. My brother has been growing for a long time,
But I already know - I don’t like him!
I'm not rushing him! I love him so much!
He's so good! He looks a little like me... Similar to me!

9. Today is my holiday,

Today is your birthday!

The whole family will come to congratulate

We're preparing a treat!

My two grandmothers will come

And two respectable grandfathers,

I love listening to stories

About the bright Victory Day!

Beloved sister will come

With my baby niece.

And with an important look I will be to her

I'll show you the books.

Today I am very happy!

I'm waiting for you, my family!

Cheerful music sounds and Kolobok appears on stage.

I am Kolobok, Kolobok
I left my grandmother
I left my grandfather.
I don't need a family
I can handle it alone.

The family comes out to meet him. This is a family of farmers. They brought with them a variety of baked goods. After telling Kolobok about their friendly family, they invite him to live with them. (Presentation 1)

Kolobok: No, I don't want to!

And he rolled on. Kolobok rolls and rolls, another family meets him. A jack of all trades. Mom is a seller, dad is a builder, grandmother is a dressmaker, grandfather is a driver. They talk about their family and invite Kolobok to live with them. Kolobok thought for a moment, but rolled on. (presentation 2)
And another family comes along - they are masters of singing songs. They sing the song “Hope”. After talking about their family, they invite Kolobok to their place. (Presentation 3)

Kolobok is confused. He says that it’s better to be alone and that he can handle any task himself.

Leading: Let's check it out and arrange a competition between families and Kolobok.

I. Competition “The proverb is said for a reason”

The proverbs are divided into two parts, make up the whole:

· There is no need for treasure when there is harmony in the family.

· When the family is together and the heart is in the right place.

· Away is good, but home is better.

· The hut is not red in its corners, it is red in its pies.

·In your own family the porridge is thicker.

II. Competition "My Home"

Exercise: inflate a balloon (this is a house), furnish it with furniture (draw with a felt-tip pen).

III. Artists' Competition

Drawing from dictation:

Draw a big circle
It's small at the top
There are two ears on the top of the head -
This will be the head.
Let's draw for beauty
Give him a fuller mustache.
Here the fluffy tail is ready -
He is the most beautiful of all cats.

IV. Competition "Mom's Hands"

Recognize your mother's hands with your eyes closed. The song “Baby Mammoth” plays.

V. Music competition

Find out what or who the song is about:

· She just lies there and looks at the sun. (Turtle)

· Imagine: he was green. (Grasshopper)

· He didn’t go through anything, he wasn’t asked anything. (Antoshka)

· He runs, swings. (Wagon)

· They run clumsily. (Pedestrians)

· It’s fun to walk around the open spaces with her. (Song)

· It makes everyone warmer. (Smile)

Kolobok cannot cope with any task. He cries:

- I want to go home! To my beloved grandparents! I will obey them, help them, have pity on them. I realized that I couldn't handle anything alone. You have very good, friendly families, you love each other. And my family worries about me and misses me. Thank you for talking some sense into me. Take care of your families, love each other!

Kolobok returns home.

Awarding the winners.

Leading: Family is a universal human value, where relationships between children and parents are formed. And only the warmth of our souls will help create a dream home for a family where everyone will live happily.
After all, a house filled with goods is not yet a home.
And even a chandelier over the table is not yet a home.

Students read I. Molchanova’s poem “Seven Main Rules.”
1. What does my family mean to me?
Of course - happiness and comfort at home,
Seven rules of obligatory keeping,
Only seven, but very, very important

2. Firstly, this is the main thing - love.
With all my heart and soul and mind.
Not just to let the blood boil with passion,
And it’s trembling, and every day is different.

3. Second - children. What is a house without them?
A desert without a well means you can't get enough to drink.
And children are life, they are a spring,
And procreation. Let it flow!

4. Then care. Only she
The family hearth will be protected from the wind.
Try to bring a smile to spring
I was always with you, and not somewhere else.

5. Fourth - patience. It
Will help you survive adversity, troubles...
And the window will be warmed by the sun.
What is frozen white with frost.

6. And fifth - responsibility and home
There is a weighty stone in the family foundation.
They will help protect love,
Protect your spiritual flame from the wind.

7. Sixth - respect. Only with him
You will gain success, general recognition
Always taking into account the opinions of others,
You will teach them to treat yours as their own.

8. And finally, the seventh thing is cleanliness.
Everywhere - in the house, in your soul and thoughts...
This is how I imagine my hearth,
Where I am loved, happy and joyful.

To the song “We wish you happiness,” participants and guests are invited to a tea party..